Traveling With Kids? Keep Them Busy With These Great Ideas

If you want to take your kids on a family vacation but dread the inevitable ‘Are we there yet?’ complaining that often comes along with such ventures, dread no more!

We’ve got lots of ideas of things for kids to do that you’ll have them there in a snap, and with memories to cherish for a lifetime as well. The bonus is, whether you are driving or flying, keeping your kids entertained, calm and interested will allow for better quality time for all of you. The following tips should help smooth out your next family vacation so everyone has a ball, and frayed nerves are kept to a minimum!

Age and Temperament: The ancient Greeks said, ‘Know Thyself,’ we say know your kids! Be aware that children differ, and what is a challenge for one child (sitting in a car for hours) may be a breeze for another (young teen reading an engrossing novel).

Plan to bring activities that are suited to your kids, and if you can enlist their help in the planning, all the better – that way, if they get bored they have some responsibility for having chosen what to bring, and will be less likely to complain. For everyone’s sanity, you may wish to consider quiet, complex past times such as crosswords, drawing books and little projects (see who can list all 50 states!) and keep the beeping, noise-making toys to a minimum. If you do bring electronics, make sure you also pack replacement batteries. It may be helpful to take your kids to a craft or book store and allow them to choose something special which will keep them occupied during travels.

I spent two weeks with my 12 year old daughter and my parents on an RV – lots of driving – and it went beautifully because I spent some time thinking ahead about what might be best for her on the long driving stretches. I brought her books, markers and pens, word puzzles and games, as well as a couple of her favorite electronics. She was a fabulous the whole time, and didn’t complain at all…this from the girl who usually complains about being carsick and hungry only 10 minutes into a drive!

Flying: Many, if not most, airlines, will let you choose your seats ahead of time. Try letting your kids have window seats and enjoy the view with them – engage them in the trip they are taking. The exception is for toddlers; make sure you have an aisle seat for those frequent washroom trips, or just so you can both stretch a little during the flight without disturbing your seatmate/s.

If you are traveling with at least two adults and two kids, and your kids tend to argue, try splitting up and giving both kids window seats in different rows (ideally not one behind the other) and a parent each to keep them company. Also, bring earphones so your kids can listen to music, watch movies and even listen to calming guided meditations (works every time with my daughter). As above, bring along some favorite books and activities that your kid/s can do quietly while sitting.

Driving: First and foremost, stop every once in a while to get out and stretch your legs. Many parents like to push through and try to get somewhere quickly, but this takes its toll on kids and can lead to crankiness and boredom. Getting out and doing some jumping jacks and stretches, letting your kids run around and improve their mood and energy levels will make a big difference. Take a bathroom break and have a snack and a few deep breaths.

Also, try taking a private vow ahead of time to remain calm and collected no matter what happens. Especially if you encounter unexpected situations, try injecting a little humor and a sense of adventure instead of impatience; your kids are too young to be able to handle things with grace without your guidance. Be a good example!

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